Birthdays: More Than Just Cake and Candles

When we think of birthdays, the first image that pops into our minds is pure joy, celebrations, decorations, cake, candles, and making the birthday person feel loved and special. It’s a day for laughter, fun, and creating beautiful memories.

But here’s something we often overlook: the very fact that we’re here, alive and celebrating, isn’t just because of us. It’s thanks to countless contributions, by nature, by people, and especially by our family and loved ones. Many of these acts we don’t even remember, yet they shaped who we are today.

Our scriptures remind us of the debts (ऋण) we owe, things that make us who we are and without which we might not even exist. These include:

• Debt to Nature

• Debt to Gurus and Teachers

• Debt to Ancestors

• Debt to Humanity

• Debt to all living beings

So, while no one is saying we shouldn’t celebrate (because celebrations are beautiful!), let’s also take a moment to recognize these influences. Express gratitude whether through rituals, heartfelt emotions, or simple intentions.

Because when we add gratitude to the celebration, the day becomes truly meaningful.

Next Time You Celebrate…

Pause for a moment. Reflect on the forces that shaped your life. Say a silent thank you, perform a small act of kindness, or simply acknowledge the blessings around you.

Your birthday isn’t just about adding years, it’s about adding meaning.

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